I fell in love with Wab Kinew after I had the chance to hear him speak. He was smart, funny, and was able to challenge the audience’s thinking and assumptions about First Nations people in a spirit of true reconciliation. I first remember him from his days working as a reporter for the CBC, and became a fan after watching the 8th Fire series. So when his book, “The Reason You Walk”, was released, it became number one on my “must read” list.
His journey from a reserve in Northwestern Ontario to Member of the Legislative Assembly in Manitoba has been an interesting one, and the path has not always been easy. One of the things that intrigues me is how someone can live through so many challenges and traumas to become such a strong and centered advocate, educator and leader. So many people are not able to see themselves through the suffering they have faced. I was curious to see if there was a hint in his memoir that could explain how he became the person that he is today.
I know that there is never one simple reason to explain how a person becomes who they are. It’s a blend of experiences, opportunities, genetics, luck…. A million different factors influence our personal development. However, there was one part of Wab’s story that fascinated me.
From the very beginning, he was told that he would grow up to lead his people.
I can’t help but think that the fact that he heard this throughout his life didn’t shape him.
It makes me think about some of the messages our kids hear. From simple statements like “You just aren’t a math person” to more cutting remarks like “You’ll never amount to anything”, I do believe that the pathway someone takes in their life is greatly influenced by the messages that they hear that help to form the picture of what they see as possible.
Wab talks at the end of the book about how important it is to him that his own children have a picture of what it is to be a strong, proud indigenous person because this will help carry them through the difficult times in life.
Do your words and actions paint an image of strength and hope for the children in your life, or do they limit their possibilities?